Manifesting with the Moon
New Moon
The new moon is an excellent time to get clear on your hopes, desires and wishes. Although realistically you can perform the following exercise at any point in your calendar, there is something special about working with the energy of a new moon that can really aid you in your manifesting journey.
This new moon manifesting exercise is a great way to get clear on your intentions and to set out a clear path to making those intentions become a reality.
You can choose to manifest in any area of your life, and it is especially good for new beginnings, whether that be a job, relationship, class or even a house move!
Whichever way you go about it, now is the perfect time to begin that journey to achieving your dreams.
So what are the steps to take when manifesting with the new moon?
Your New Moon Ceremony
Set the scene.
Turn your environment into a soothing space in which to conduct your manifesting. Light some candles and incense, play some music, put some cushions or blankets down to help make yourself comfortable. Put the cat out, and let those you live with know not to disturb you!
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Set the intention.
As you make your way through the first step remember to keep your intentions pure. Reflect on why you are here and what you are doing this for. Set the intention that you are moving into a positive, welcoming space, that you are here to draw in the things that you wish to see more of, and to release what you no longer need.
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Show gratitude.
By being grateful you are putting yourself in alignment with all the good that you are already experiencing in your life. By focusing on the good over the bad you are able to welcome more of the good into your life! So take a few minutes to think about and maybe even write down everything that you are grateful for - the people you spend your time with, the places you go, the things that you do in your day to day life that bring you enjoy. Send your love and appreciation to them all.
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Meditate.
Take a few minutes to focus on your breathing and bring yourself into a state of calm and relaxation. You can sit and focus on the candle before you as you breathe, close your eyes and listen to the relaxing music you have playing, or even pop over to Youtube to play a guided meditation (you might even find one specifically aimed at the new moon manifesting!)
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Write it down.
Take this time to reflect on and transfer from pen to paper all those things you wish to bring into your life over the coming weeks or months. Be sure to only focus on the things you do want rather than the things you don't. The last thing you need is to draw closer to you the things that you want less of. So be mindful of the language you use, ensuring that it is positive. Also remember to allow some room for the universe to work its magic. You can do this by not getting too specific in your language. If you are manifesting a new house don't get too caught up in focusing on one particular house that you have seen, instead focus on what it is about that house that you like? Do you want a house with a large kitchen where the family can gather and share meals? Or a garden for the kids to run and play in? Use concise language to describe what you are attracting into your life.
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Visualise.
Following on nicely from the last step, as you read over your list try to imagine how it will feel to achieve the life that you are creating. How would these things make you feel? Excited? Calm? Loved?
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Release.
There are a number of ways in which you can do this, but a favourite of ours is to burn your list, allowing the energy to be released and therefore handing it over to God/the Universe for creation. As you do so, have faith and acceptance that things will ultimately work out for the highest good even if they don't appear exactly as you imagined them.
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Take inspired action.
Now that the energetic seeds have been planted, it is time for you to play your part. Write down an action plan of steps that you can take to make those wishes a reality. What can you do to bring yourself closer to the life you just visualised? After all you are a co-creator of the life you live.
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Full Moon
The full moon is a great time for both forgiveness and gratitude - depending on how your month has gone!
As it shines its brilliant light into our deepest, hidden corners, the full moon acts as a sacred time for release - allowing us to really give appreciation for the positive influences in our lives and to shed the weight of the negative influences that may have impacted us over the last month and beyond.
Embrace this opportunity to cleanse your spirit, heal old wounds and welcome the positive energies into your life.
Forgiveness at the full moon
Forgiveness is the intentional process of letting go of anger and resentment towards someone who has hurt you. It is a conscious, personal decision aimed at releasing yourself from the weight of negative emotions. Importantly, forgiveness is not the same as forgetting what happened, excusing the harmful behaviour, or even reconciling the relationship. Rather, it is an act of strength for your own well-being, a journey that can reduce stress and lead to greater peace, empathy, and improved mental and physical health.
As Yasmin Boland says in her book ‘Moonology’ - “Sometimes you can forgive and forget. Sometimes you can only forgive but you can't forget. And sometimes you can forgive but it's not even wise to forget. We're all human and we all make mistakes; we're all fighting our own personal battles.”
What forgiveness is:
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Letting go of resentment and anger:
Forgiveness involves actively choosing to release negative emotions associated with the offence. -
A conscious decision:
It's a deliberate act of the will, not a spontaneous feeling. -
A personal process:
Forgiveness is primarily about the individual who has been wronged, and how they choose to process the situation. -
May lead to positive emotions:
While not always the case, forgiveness can lead to feelings of empathy, compassion, and even understanding towards the offender. -
Can improve mental and physical health:
Studies have shown that forgiveness can lead to reduced anxiety, stress, depression, and improved cardiovascular health.
What forgiveness is not:
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Forgetting:
Forgiveness does not mean erasing the memory of the offence or pretending it didn't happen. -
Condoning or excusing:
It doesn't mean justifying the offender's behaviour or removing the responsibility for their actions. -
Necessarily reconciliation:
Forgiveness does not automatically mean restoring the relationship or engaging with the offender in the same way as before. -
A sign of weakness:
It takes strength and courage to let go of negative emotions and move on. -
Always easy:
The process of forgiveness can be challenging and may require confronting difficult emotions.
Forgiveness Ceremony.
Step 1: Prepare Your Space:
Creating the right environment is key to feeling safe enough to do this deep emotional work. Find a Private Spot - choose a location where you will not be disturbed for at least 30 minutes. Create a Calming Atmosphere - dim the lights and light a candle (white or blue is often used for peace and healing). You might play some soft, instrumental music or simply sit in silence. Have tissues, a pen, and a few pieces of paper ready.
Step 2: Centre and State Your Intention:
Ground yourself and clarify the purpose of your ceremony. Breathe - sit comfortably, close your eyes, and take several deep, slow breaths. With each exhale, imagine you are releasing the stress of the day.
Set Your Intention - say aloud or silently in your mind, "My intention for this ceremony is to practice forgiveness. I am doing this for my own peace and freedom. I am ready to release what is weighing me down."
Step 3: Identify the Need for Forgiveness:
This step involves honest reflection. It can be broken into two parts.
Forgiving Others - on a piece of paper, write down the names of people who have hurt you. Next to each name, briefly write down the resentment, anger, or pain you are holding onto. Allow yourself to acknowledge the feelings without judgment.
Forgiving Yourself - on a separate piece of paper, write down anything you need to forgive yourself for. This could be for past mistakes, regrets, or unkind words or actions. This is often the most challenging but most crucial part of forgiveness.
Step 4: The Ritual of Release: This is the symbolic core of the ceremony, where you actively let go.
Speak Your Release - holding the first piece of paper (forgiving others), look at each name and say, "I acknowledge the pain you caused. I choose to release the anger and resentment I hold towards you. I do this not for you, but for me. I release you."
Release Yourself - now, hold the second piece of paper (forgiving yourself). Read what you wrote and say with compassion, "I acknowledge my past mistakes. I accept that I am human and imperfect. I choose to release this guilt and shame. I forgive myself."
Symbolic Destruction - now you must destroy the papers. The most powerful method is burning, which symbolises transformation.
IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTE: Use a fire-safe bowl, cauldron, or fireplace. Perform this act with extreme caution, well away from anything flammable. As you watch the paper burn, visualise the heavy emotions turning to smoke and disappearing. Ensure the embers are completely extinguished before you finish.
Alternatives: If burning isn't an option, you can shred the paper into the smallest possible pieces and throw them away, or dissolve the paper in a bowl of water until it turns to pulp.
Step 5: Welcome Peace and Healing:
After releasing the old, you must fill that empty space with positive, healing energy. Place a Hand on Your Heart - close your eyes and feel your heartbeat.
Recite an Affirmation - say a healing phrase that resonates with you. For example: "My heart is now open to peace. I am free from the weight of the past. I move forward with a lighter spirit."
Visualise - imagine a gentle, silvery-white light (like the moonlight) pouring down, filling your entire being with calm, healing energy.
Step 6: Close the Ceremony:
End your practice with intention and gratitude.
Give Thanks - thank yourself for your courage and willingness to do this important work. Thank the Full Moon for its supportive energy.
Extinguish Your Candle - as you blow out your candle, consider the ceremony complete.
Be Gentle with Yourself - this work can be emotionally draining. Spend the rest of the evening doing something gentle and nurturing, like taking a warm bath, drinking herbal tea, or listening to calming music.
Gratitude at the full moon
Gratitude is a profound sense of appreciation for the beauty and blessings in our lives, from the simplest pleasures to the most significant gifts. It is a cultivated perspective - a lens of thankfulness through which we can view the world. By consciously recognising, valuing, and expressing our thanks for positive experiences and relationships, we not only strengthen our connections but also foster a resilient, optimistic spirit that dramatically enhances our overall well-being.
"Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity." - Melody Beattie
The Importance of Gratitude.
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Enhances Well-being:
Gratitude has been linked to increased happiness, reduced stress and depression, and improved mental health. -
Strengthens Relationships:
Feeling and expressing gratitude can strengthen your relationships with others by fostering positive interactions and appreciation. -
Positive Mindset:
Focusing on what you're grateful for can shift your perspective, making you more optimistic and resilient. -
Motivation and Productivity:
Gratitude can inspire you to take positive actions and contribute to your personal and professional goals. -
Recognition: Being aware of the positive things, people, and experiences that are in your life.
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Appreciation: Valuing and feeling thankful for those positive aspects.
Gratitude Ceremony.
Step 1: Prepare Your Sacred Space
Before you begin, create a calm and comfortable environment where you won't be disturbed.
Choose a Location - find a quiet spot, either indoors near a window where you can see the moon, or safely outdoors.
Set the Atmosphere - you may wish to light candles, burn incense or sage to cleanse the space, and arrange meaningful items like crystals, photos, or natural objects around you.
Step 2: Ground Yourself
Take a few moments to become present and centered before you start the main ritual.
Breathe - sit comfortably, close your eyes, and take several slow, deep breaths. Inhale calm, and exhale any stress or tension from your day.
Connect - feel your connection to the earth beneath you and acknowledge the presence of the Full Moon above, even if you can't see it directly.
Step 3: Reflect and List Your Gratitude
This is the heart of the ritual. The focus is on thankfulness.
Reflect - think back over the past month, since the last Full Moon. Consider all the things that you are grateful for. These can be big things (a new job, a loving relationship) or small, everyday joys (a beautiful sunset, a kind word from a stranger, a moment of peace).
Write It Down - on a piece of paper or in a journal, write down your gratitude list. The physical act of writing helps to solidify the feeling. Don't rush; take your time and truly feel the appreciation for each item you list.
Step 4: Release and Let Go
The Full Moon is a powerful time for release. By letting go of the negative, you create more space for gratitude to grow.
Identify What to Release - on a separate piece of paper, write down anything you wish to let go of. This could be a fear, a self-limiting belief, a negative habit, or resentment towards a situation.
Perform a Symbolic Release - the most common method is to safely burn this piece of paper.
IMPORTANT: Please do this with extreme caution. Use a fire-safe bowl, cauldron, or a fireplace. Do it away from any flammable materials and ensure the embers are fully extinguished before you finish.
Alternative: If burning is not safe or possible, you can tear the paper into the smallest possible pieces and discard it, or bury it in the earth.
Step 5: Deepen Your Practice
If you wish to continue your ritual, you can add any of these practices:
Moon Bathe - sit or lie down in the moonlight for a few minutes and visualise its bright energy cleansing your aura and filling you with positive vibrations.
Charge Your Items - place your crystals, journal, or a glass of water on a windowsill to charge under the moonlight.
Meditate - hold your gratitude list to your heart and meditate for 5-10 minutes on the feeling of thankfulness, visualising that positive energy expanding.
Step 6: Close the Ritual
End your practice with a clear sense of closure.
Give Thanks - offer a final, simple "thank you" to the Moon, to the universe, or to yourself for taking this time.
Extinguish Safely - carefully extinguish any candles you have lit.
Reflect - take one last deep breath and carry the feelings of peace and gratitude with you as you continue your evening.